5 Signs What Every Parent Needs to Know!

5 Signs Your Tween Is A Cyber Bully

1} Quickly changes or closes the computer screen when others walk by.
2} Uses his/her cell phone or computer all hours of the day and night.
3} Laughs excessively while on his/her cell phone or computer.
4} Has multiple online accounts that are often hidden from parents.
5} Talks harshly about others, especially when with friends.

5 Signs Your Tween is Being Cyber Bullied

1} Changes in mood or demeanor when an instant message or text message appears.
2} Avoids talking about school, friends, or what they do online.
3} Crying, anxiety and depression, especially after using a cell phone or computer.
4} School refusal. Makes excuses not to go to school.
5} Withdrawn from family, friends or usual activities. Changes in eating or sleeping.

5 Signs Your Tween Needs Social Networking Etiquette

1} Posts their every move online without considering the consequences (i.e.; Jumping in the shower, Leaving for family vacation}.
2} Posts negative or derogatory comments about friends, family, teachers, etc.
3} Does not realize their messages, photos, & videos can be viewed by strangers in cyber space, including college admissions & future employers.
4} Does not realize that once a message, photo or video is sent via cyber space, it can never be erased.
5} Profile photos & videos are offensive or damaging to their self- image & reputation (i.e.; including alcohol, drugs, or sex}.

5 Signs Your Child Needs Cell Phone/Texting Etiquette

1} Texting affects your child's education and attention span in school.
2} Your child texts more than he/she talks face to face, losing vital
communication skills.
3} Your child texts his/her friends when sitting right next to them.
4} Your child suffers from finger/joint pain due to constant texting.
5} Your child is attached to their cell phone 24/7 and can't seem to live without it.

5 Signs That Your Child May Be Viewing Adult Material

1} Quickly changes or closes the computer screen when you walk by. Erased history.
2} Spending unusual amounts of time alone, on the computer, or in their room.
3} Depression, anxiety or increased agitation
4} Refusing to let others look at his/her cell phone.
5} Changes in grades, sleeping or eating habits.

 
 

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Tweens & Technology

Quick Stats

Cell Phones

  • Today, approximately 79% of all teens (17 million) have a mobile device, a 36% increase since 2005.
  • 49 percent of high school students have posted personal information on their web pages such as name, age, or address.

Cyber-Bullying

  • 42% of kids have been bullied while online. 1 in 4 have had it happen more than once.
  • 58% have not told their parents or an adult about something mean or hurtful that happened to them online.
  • 53% of kids admit having said something mean or hurtful to another person online. More than 1 in 3 have done it more than once.
  • The primary cyber bullying location where victimizing occurs is in chat rooms (56 percent).
  • 49 percent are victimized via instant message and 28 percent via e-mail.

Adult Material

  • More than 11 million tweens regularly view adult material online.
  • The Adult Industry has become a major presence in the lives of youth and few parents are using available technology to block sexual content.
  • More than one-third of 16 and 17-year-old boys surveyed said they had intentionally visited X-rated sites in the past year. Among girls the same age, 8 percent had done so.
  • 79% of youth unwanted exposure to the Adult Industry occurs in the home.

Taken from enough.org, isafe.org and ctia.org.

 
 
 
 
 

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